Friday, May 21, 2010

Must Do: Clothespins or Clamps

Really good nipple clamps can be expensive to get for a girl, not to mention difficult if she's too young to easily buy sex toys. Regular clothes pins work almost just as well, and they can be used for other things than clamping nipples, too! I always keep a half dozen clothespins around to wear a pair on my nipples, keeping me both humble and horny. The best thing is to remove them and let all the blood flow back into the nipples regularly (I like to do it every 15-20 minutes), then put the clothespins back on. A throbbing ache in the nipples is sure to keep a girl submissive and focused on the right things!

Clothespins are also great to use between the legs, but one mistake girls often make is to put one on each lip, which looks nice but isn't as useful as clamping them around the lips, essentially closing the cunny off. A high placed clamp over the hood will also prevent any stimulation of the clitty, and getting aroused will cause a nicely uncomfortable strain and ache from underneath the clamped hood, behind the clothespin. If orgasm prevention is the main reason, one clamp is enough, but a couple of clothespins down a girl's cunny slit both looks nice, prevents leaking and is disciplinary.

Wearing clothespins on both nipples and cunny requires a state of undress that clamps may not need, but a girl should be naked or at least exposed enough so that this won't be a problem while at home. A good exercise while clamped is to regularly flick the clamps with fingers when the throbbing, pinching sensation becomes dull, that will make both nipples and cunny perk right up!

Clothespins are also great for discipline and to prevent an undeserved orgasm. A girl should clamp her nipples and cunny for a period of time before discipline, whether administred by herself or her Man, then remove them for hand or belt spanking on both tits and between the legs, then put the clamps right back on the disciplined, red and swollen nipples and cunny immediately. She can then wear them during corner time while thinking about her predicament, and repeating the procedure will absolutely put a girl in her place!

If a girl is allowed to masturbate her cunny, or if she gets too aroused from spanking it, the clamps, especially one up high pinching off the clitty, will also prevent her from cumming. A training regimen consisting of a daily ritual, clamps on for ten minutes, off for spanking or belting, back on for ten minutes, off for allowed masturbation (with no permission to cum, of course), back on for ten minutes, and so on, for a total of an hour or two, is highly recommended! A variation would be for a girl to be required to masturbate anally while clamped, since that hole will available. Being plugged during clothespin training is also a good alternative.

Since even a strip of clothespins down the slit leaves a girl's asshole available for use, the clamping previously described is an excellent way to make sure she doesn't cum during anal use, letting her Man enjoy her asshole without risking making her cum. He can even remove the first pin pinching above her clitty for a while, let the filthy sexual desire build up in her, then put it back on , preventing her from release. Done often, this might turn a girl into a wet puddle of need, frustration and humiliation from realizing how unworthy she is of orgasm while fulfilling the duty to please her Man's Cock with her asshole!

Even if a girl hasn't yet been conditioned to love the stretching of her ass by one or more thick, hard Cocks, the clothespins fulfill their purpose by adding a pinching, painful discomfort during use, just as before, during and after the discipline mentioned earlier.

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Must Do: Anal Plugging

The most important sex toy for a girl is also the cheapest! A girl can get by with clothespins, leather belts, clotheshangers and other household items for many things, but a buttplug is a necessity to invest in. It will only cost a few dollars and all online sex toy stores have them. It's recommended to start with a small or medium sized plug and then build up a collection of plugs for specific purposes over time.

Starting with plug training long before actual anal use is good, it will create strong associations with both sexual need and humiliating discomfort in a girl. The first training plug should be easy enough to insert, but cause an uncomfortable strain when worn, making its presence felt at all times. It's important to remain plugged during all sexually arousing activity, whether it's masturbation, humiliating tasks and chores, discipline or punishment. Before too long, the feeling of stretching the asshole when inserting the plug, and feeling the anal ring close around the slimmer base, should make a girl's cunny ache with sexual need (and possibly require a disciplinary spanking or belting). It's also important to start wearing the plug out, even if just for a quick walk or running an errand. If wearing panties, they should be snug, one or two sizes too small, so that they push the plug up firmly, and the additional volume of the plug base between the asscheeks will yank the panties in around the cunny and push it out in a nice, thick cameltoe.

Must Do: Sucking Cock

One of the best ways to show devotion and appreciation for your Man is to take pride in pleasing His Cock well with your mouth. Not only can you usually start sucking Cock before any other type of sex or use since it's usually easier to hide a blowjob from prying parents as a teenager, but it's also important to learn to love the taste, smell and feel of a thick, hard, Masculine Cock ready to burst with hot Sperm!

One of the first mistakes girls seem to do when pleasing Cock with their mouth is to use their hands. I think the hands should be kept away, it's usually good to tie a girl's hands behind her back until she learns to use her mouth, lips, face and tongue, whether she is humbly worshiping the Cock or getting roughly face fucked. I know how hard it can sometimes be to keep the hands away if not tied up, but a girl can always use them to play with nipples, cunny and asshole instead, risking potential punishment for bad behavior.

On the subject of getting face fucked, unless you're waking your Man up or sending him off to sleep with your Cocksucking, chances are that He might get rough when excited in a Masculine way and start treating your mouth like a fuckhole. When that happens, make sure to keep using your lips and tongue to stimulate the Cock, making your mouth as tight and pleasant as possible while running your tongue tip over the Cockhead, ridge, slit and underneath, showing Him how much you adore His Cock despite probably gagging, choking, tearing up and crying.

Unlike in porn, I feel that it's most appropriate for a girl to take the load of Sperm in the mouth, making sure that her Man's orgasm is as powerful and enjoyable as possible. After sucking Cock for only a short while, you'll learn to anticipate the release by tasting the salty precum and feeling the veins on the shaft tense up in preparation of unloading. At this point, if your Man slows down, it's possible to prolong the time before cumming, but His body will believe that He spurted a load of Sperm, so His balls will start producing more, which means that if you do well, you will increase the size and volume of His loads, both showing your appreciation for His Cock and also providing you with larger, thicker, heavier Spermloads!

Once you have earned the Sperm, don't swallow it right away! Hold it in your mouth, swirling it around and really tasting it, showing it to your Man so that He can see how much He came. With the Semen still warm and bubbling on your tongue, thank Him for the privilege of sucking His Cock and feeding on his Seed, then ask permission to swallow. I feel that it's proper for a girl to learn this behavior when lucky enough to please more than one Cock with her mouth, too, but then it might be necessary to have subsequent loads jerked into her open, waiting mouth.

There is a possibility that your Man will want to shoot His load all over your face. I like to think of facials as foreplay, using your soiled, Sperm covered appearance as a starting point for further use or discipline. In any case, thank your Man but don't wipe it off! Show the proper respect for the Cock and Cum and let it run down your face in thick ropes, catching it with your mouth if possible, perhaps coaxing your Man's Cock back to hardness right away with your mouth while your face is still smeared.

Monday, May 17, 2010

Must Do: Shaving, Waxing, Plucking

Hair is bad, at least body hair. Hair should only be on a girl's head! From the neck and down, a girl should be totally smooth, bare and hairless, with extra special care taken to a few places: armpits, legs, crotch and ass crack! No Man wants to see, much less touch or use, a hairy or stubbly girl, and being bald between the legs and around the asshole is a necessity for many things.

If you're like me, you aren't old enough or don't have enough money to do undergo electrolysis, permanent hair removal therapy. Then what to do? Shave, wax, pluck! You don't have to go to an expensive spa to get waxed, you can buy wax kits and do it yourself, at home. You might need some help with the area around your asshole, but a good mirror on the floor works, too. Shaving is easy, and using a pincer to pluck stray hairs, especially between your cheeks, is the best way to finish off a hair removal session.

A girl should make sure that she is perfectly smooth every morning, adding about fifteen minutes to her morning routine, to shave and pluck if necessary, because her Man might be the type to inspect her at any time. I actually like this little ritual, if I ever could remove all my body hair permanently I think I would miss the time spent making my cunny and asshole visually pleasing, spankable and fuckable, for my Man!

There are many reasons why hairlessness is so important. I'm not allowed to please Cock with my cunny yet, but I regularly receive discipline in the form of a hand or belt spanking between the legs, and the impact and sting of the slaps is much more effective when smooth there. It also looks much better, glowing pink, red and swollen, after discipline, so my Man can keep an eye on my cunny and tell right away when it starts to fade and needs more! Being bald also means that I can fluff up my cunny with a couple of quick slaps on my own to make sure I have a nice, encouraging puffy cameltoe under tight clothes.

Even if you are, unlike me, allowed Cock in your cunny, chances are that you'll get your asshole used, too (more on that in another post), and obviously any stray hairs there will look very unappealing. It's a good idea to let your Man inspect your pucker by standing, kneeling or bending over to spread your asscheeks so He knows that you're ready to please His Cock with your ass, even if He hasn't insisted on it yet. Saying something encouraging, like how good His Cock would feel in your perfectly smooth, tight anal fuckhole, will probably do the trick, and soon you'll find that you'll be inspected daily!